Paul Revere by Cyrus Dallin, North End, Boston

Wednesday, December 31, 2025

Maybe because I was born and raised in Boston..

 

and heard the name Kennedy since I was a child that another unbearable tragedy, the death of John F. Kennedy's granddaughter, Tatiana, so moved me.

I followed John F. Kennedy's exciting candidacy for the presidency as a young teen, thrilled to think a young, handsome U.S. senator from my state could become president. I remember a classmate who supported Nixon's candidacy and I kept up a friendly competition to see whose chosen candidate would win -- we were both too young to vote. When JFK won, my family and I were thrilled. I'd been used to seeing Dwight D. Eisenhower as a young child on television, and thought only old men could be presidents, but now JFK would make US history as the youngest president ever elected. 

The brief Kennedy years were an exciting time for us Bostonians, and I followed his presidency the way other young teens followed movie stars in the then popular Hollywood gossip magazine, Photoplay.

Then unimagined tragedy hit us all in the gut on November 22, 1963, when our beloved JFK was assassinated in Dallas, Texas.  In my mind, I can still see that famous photo of Mrs. Kennedy and her two young children, Caroline and John, standing on the steps of the White House waiting for President Kennedy's funeral procession to arrive.  My parents, my brother, and I wept as we watched the horse-drawn caisson carry his casket to Arlington Cemetery to be placed beneath the Eternal Flame.

As the years passed, we watched Caroline and John grow into fine young adults. But tragedy was never far away. Our former First Lady, Jacqueline Kennedy Onassis,  passed away in 1994 at the young age of 64, and five years later, the unthinkable happed again when John F. Kennedy, Jr., his wife, and his sister-in-law were killed when his plane went down off the coast of Martha's Vineyard in July of 1999.

And now, the unendurable news of Caroline Kennedy Schlossberg's daughter and JFK's granddaughter's passing at the age of 35, leaving behind her husband, George, her 3-year-old son, and her 1-year-old daughter, her father, Edwin, her sister, Rose, and her brother, Jack.

We mourn with them in the loss of this intelligent, accomplished, beautiful, gentle woman.

Her passing reminded me of how far back my family appreciated and supported her grandfather, John F. Kennedy. We found this letter from him to my father after my father passed away.  I treasure it:




“Even in our sleep, pain which cannot forget falls drop by drop upon the heart until, in our own despair, against our will, comes wisdom through the awful grace of God.” ― Aeschylus

7 comments:

Anonymous said...

Wisdom and compassion inseparable is the the guiding light for humanity. But only if one chooses to to be illuminated by its light

Dave Miller said...

Nice Shaw... My sister in law has a handwritten like to her mom from then President Ike. Hand signed as well.

Dave Dubya said...

Shaw,
That is indeed a treasure, as was your father. My parents voted for Kennedy, too.

My first vote would be against Nixon as well. When he won twice I began to realize Americans would have a long history of making poor decisions.

Little did I comprehend just how terribly wrong they would be at the worst times.

Shaw Kenawe said...

"Tatiana’s family, including her mother Caroline Kennedy and husband George Moran, had stood together throughout her treatment, their public statements reflecting both profound grief and gratitude for the support of communities across generations. In moments like these — where loss intersects with legacy — what resonates most is not division, but the collective remembrance of a life lived with intention, a reminder that beyond noise and noise makers, the human heart seeks connection, solace and the enduring power of shared stories. Tatiana’s words and work remain a testament to that truth, a lasting counterweight to the fleeting rush of the moment.”

Shaw Kenawe said...

I don't think anyone could have envisioned what the American people (not the majority, BTW) would choose to lead our country. I still struggle to believe what we're living through.

Shaw Kenawe said...

And like the crude psychopath that he is, Trump responded to JFK's granddaughter's untimely death with this:

Trump elevates social media posts attacking the Kennedys as family mourns cancer death of JFK’s 35-year-old granddaughter

President Donald Trump reacts to death of journalist Tatiana Schlossberg from blood cancer by posting screenshots of criticism of her famous political family

Shaw Kenawe said...

"But rather than pay tribute to the deceased or express condolences to her grieving family, the president fired out three posts consisting of screenshots of negative comments about the Kennedys’ supposed neglect of the Kennedy Center in Washington, D.C., the performing arts venue Trump has taken over this year and rebranded the “Trump Kennedy Center.”