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Wednesday, September 16, 2026

A little insight into why Trump is the way he is:

 




From the liar, cheat, and fraudster who never takes responsibility for any of his mistakes or cockups*, here he is again blaming others for his failures:


*I have my favorite Englishman to thank for that expression.




"A person who never takes responsibility for their failures and mistakes is generally operating from a place of fragile self-esteem and deep-seated emotional insecurity, using blame-shifting as a psychological defense mechanism. In psychology, this chronic lack of accountability usually reveals a rigid pattern of self-protection rather than simple stubbornness or malice."



More from AI:

Psychological & Emotional Drivers
  • An All-or-Nothing Identity: Their ego is often incredibly fragile. They perceive making a mistake not as a temporary action, but as a total indictment of their worth as a human being. To protect their identity from "shattering," their brain automatically rejects the truth. [1, 2, 3]
  • Intense Fear of Shame: While they may project confidence, admitting a fault triggers an overwhelming, intolerable level of shame. Deflecting blame acts as an emotional survival tactic to avoid this painful feeling. [1, 2, 3]
  • External Locus of Control: They genuinely believe that external forces—luck, timing, or other people—dictate their lives. Because they view themselves as perpetual passengers to circumstance, they see no reason to hold themselves accountable. [1, 2]
  • Childhood Conditioning: This is often a learned habit. If they grew up in an environment where admitting a mistake led to harsh punishment, humiliation, or a loss of love, they learned that concealment and denial keep them safe


According to Mary Trump’s memoir, Too Much and Never Enough, Donald Trump’s father, Fred Trump Sr., severely criticized and mocked any child who admitted a mistake or apologized. [1, 2]
In her book, Mary Trump—who is a trained clinical psychologist—explains that Fred Trump Sr. ran the household with an authoritarian and unforgiving dynamic. He viewed admitting to an error or offering an apology as a sign of absolute weakness, and he would grow furious or mock his children if they did so. [1, 2, 3, 4]
Mary Trump recounts that Donald Trump’s older brother, Fred Jr. (Mary's father), was initially the primary target of this harsh treatment because he was naturally kind and often apologized when he fell short of his father's rigid expectations. According to the book, a young Donald Trump closely watched the "traumas inflicted on and suffered by his older brother" and intentionally adapted his own behavior to escape his father's scorn. [1, 2, 3, 4]
To survive his father's disapproval, Donald learned to never admit mistakes, never apologize, and instead project an image of aggressive confidence. Mary Trump argues that this childhood conditioning ultimately "destroyed" her uncle's ability to experience a normal spectrum of human emotions, locking him into a lifelong defense mechanism where admitting a mistake is completely out of the question. [1, 2, 3, 4]
The White House and Donald Trump himself have repeatedly rejected these claims, stating that his relationship with his father was warm, loving, and supportive. [1, 2]



The Roy Cohn Mentorship: In the 1970s, Trump was mentored by the ruthless New York lawyer Roy Cohn. Cohn famously operated under a strict set of personal rules: always attack, admit nothing, deny everything, and always claim victory. Biographers and historians frequently use the words "never admit a mistake, never apologize" as a shorthand summary of the tactics Trump adopted directly from Cohn


  • Trump's Own Words on Apologizing: While Trump may not have used that specific quote, he has openly stated his aversion to apologizing. During a 2015 interview on The Tonight Show, Jimmy Fallon asked him if he ever apologized. Trump responded: "I think apologizing is a great thing, but you have to be wrong. I will absolutely apologize, sometime in the hopefully distant future, if I’m ever wrong."
2015 Anderson Cooper Interview: Clarifying his stance to CNN's Anderson Cooper, Trump questioned the need for repentance if he wasn't making major errors, saying, "Why do I have to repent or ask for forgiveness if you're not making mistakes? I work hard. I'm an honorable person." [1]

 Multiple petitions and public letters, including an open letter signed by over 200 health professionals, have argued that Trump exhibits symptoms consistent with malignant narcissism, antisocial personality disorder, and paranoia. They point to traits like extreme grandiosity, a lack of remorse, habitual misrepresentation, and a reckless disregard for the safety of others. [1, 2, 3]

29 comments:

skudrunner said...

Malignant Narcissism, great description of trump and so accurate. Unless there are enough people who believe they will get $5k for voting and support the trump party with their vote we will have a government who will get less done than they normally do. This may turn out to be the most embarrassing two years in the US history even surpassing the previous four years when we had a incompetent, senile puppet.
The dems have stated that they are going prosecute trump and bring impeachment proceedings as their main objective so there will be fireworks and get nothing done which with the total incompetence of congress is not a bad thing.

Dave Dubya said...

Authoritarians beget authoritarians. Sociopaths beget sociopaths.

their offspring who overcome and reject their authoritarian parents' cruelty are the ones gifted with an open mind, sense of decency, fairness, and compassion.

You know, "woke" stuff that authoritarian personalities deride and scorn because they have no conscience.

BB-Idaho said...

Amazon is selling t-shirts in 15 colors with a cartoon of trump with a bat on
his head and the words 'batshit crazy'. While true, it seems not a scientific
term (yet)

Dave Miller said...

Skud posited... "The dems have stated that they are going prosecute trump and bring impeachment proceedings as their main objective...

And as usual, it's not true. I won't even ask because it is impossible to find any links where the leadership of the party, specifically House and Senate Leaders Jeffries and Schumer have said this.

None Skud.

So why do you think this is true and why do you post it as fact?

From ABC News... "Jeffries has emphasized that the party's main platform and focus remains on pocketbook issues and "making life more affordable for everyday Americans".

When back bench Democrats force votes on impeaching Trump, Democratic leaders Jeffries, Pete Aguilar, and Katherine Clark instruct the caucus to vote "present," effectively helping to shelve the measures.

For sure, I assume, there will be investigations and oversight as that is part of their Constitutionally defined job, but is that a bad thing? Isn't that doing their job?

Dave Miller said...

And no Skud... perhaps the most embarrassing years in US history was centered around the Civil War or the Congressional Era where our reps actually killed their political opponents.

You know, the era of the founders.

Joe Conservative said...

The next Republican President will make you long for the Trump days.

Les Carpenter said...

:)- So true Dave. Maybe once the baby boomers are all pushing up daisies the nation might come closer to achieving its potential for equality and an egalitarian society.

The Indus valley civilization acheived it, 3300 BC.

Shaw Kenawe said...

What makes you think that there will be another Republican president? A HUGE majority of Americans are FURIOUS with what this one is doing to the country.

Dave Miller said...

I'll never long for the Trump days -FJ/Joe... but I'm fully expecting another totally incompetent admin some time soon from the ashes of the MAGAGOP.

I mean if we last that long.

skudrunner said...

Dave, You need to broaden you search efforts so you can get the entire picture. The interwiz is even available in the mountains of Mexico so you can still find things out.
From the hill
“No, we haven’t ruled anything in and we haven’t ruled anything out in terms of impeachment,” Jeffries told George Stephanopoulos on ABC’s “This Week,” when the host asked him whether House Democrats would pursue impeachment on day one if they are in the majority."

Newsweek "Democratic Representative Al Green of Texas is forcing a House vote this week in what would be the ninth attempt to impeach President Donald Trump since 2017. Green has led six of those efforts."

"Jeffries has emphasized that the party's main platform and focus remains on pocketbook issues" Is an open border policy a way to bring costs down. Are increased regulations a way to bring costs down. Is starting a war a way to bring costs down. No to all those and neither party is looking out for you because they are not held accountable. What was inflation like during biden which started the escalating price trend. What has trump done to bring costs down (not a damn thing).
30% of voters support the dems, 30% the republicans and 30% are thinking individuals so the election in 2028 will be decided by the independents. In case you wonder about the other 10%, they don't care.

Dave Dubya said...

JC yearns for a smarter American Hitler. No Surprise.

skudrunner said...

Ms, Shaw, the country has a long history of changing political parties in charge.
We went from ford to carter to bush to clinton to bush to obama to trump to biden and back again. Tough to please the people for long and whoever is in office is to blame for not giving enough free stuff or taking it away.

Anonymous said...

...because "not Trump" isn't an agenda.

Les Carpenter said...

We very well may not last that long. Climate change IS the #1 existential threat to sentient beings. #2 being Zionisms creep towards WW III with the genocidal butcher netanyahu's eye on potential of using nukes to satisfy his hate for those practicing the fairh of Islam.

Les Carpenter said...

Neither is "pro trump". It's a wrecking ball.

possumlady said...

I live in the DC area and ALL of the DC area is in an uproar over the little dictator holding the Kennedy Center hostage if his little name is not added. The Washington Post recently wrote what the little dictator said at a press conference today:

“For us as an administration to want to do that, I think the Trump administration should be recognized,” Trump told reporters while visiting North Carolina to campaign for the Republican Senate nominee. The president said the center would require years of financial support even after a roughly $250 million renovation.

“Frankly, if we don’t do that, it’s going to close,” he said. “It’ll end up being ripped down.”

Anonymous said...


This Definitely deserves to be discussed further. You blog has a person who repeats this LIE OVER AND OVER AGAIN.
What are my thoughts? Are you Kidding
My thoughts are And I QUOTE!
“That ANY AMERICAN THAT CALLS OUR PRESIDENT. Or VICE PRESIDENT. a “HITLER”. ISN'T AN AMERICAN AT ALL?”NOT IN MY ESTIMATION. IIN FACT I’D CALL THEM A
IGNORANT , SON OF A BITCH!

Reply

-FJ the Dangerous and Extreme MAGA Jew said...

A re-elected wrecking ball!

Dave Miller said...

You're right Anon... we get ppl who lie here every single day. It's just that today, Shaw decided to publish you.

You want to play, here's the prices of admission... Who won the 2020 election?

Then maybe you'll be taken seriously.

Dave Miller said...

Possum... I just don't know what to think of the Kennedy Center situation. Or the reflecting pool. Or the Arch de Trump. Or the Smithsonian. Or the WWII Memorial which now Trump is going to "fix". Or even the US Park system.

It's all falling apart.

Why?

It's a simple one word answer...

Trump.

Anonymous said...

Well, Anon, you just identified the Vice President J.D. Vance as an "IGNORANT, SON OF A BITCH!"

Apparently, you are unaware of the FACT that J.D. Vance, before he became a sycophantic MAGA, called Trump "America's Hiltler."

Context of the Remark

During the 2016 presidential election cycle, Vance was a prominent "Never Trump" conservative and frequently criticized Trump both publicly and privately.

The specific quote was sent privately to his former Yale Law School roommate, Josh McLaurin (who later became a Democratic Georgia State Senator)

In the message, Vance discussed how the Republican Party had failed lower-income voters, creating an opening for a demagogue.

Vance wrote:
"I go back and forth between thinking Trump is a cynical asshole like Nixon who wouldn't be that bad (and might even prove useful) or that he's America's Hitler."


Shaw Kenawe said...

I'm the "Anonymous" above. Don't know why Blogger didn't post my name.

Dave Miller said...

Well Skud... my statement above came from the same show. So there's that. Your statement... “No, we haven’t ruled anything in and we haven’t ruled anything out in terms of impeachment,”... specifically says they have not made a decision.

So what do we have?

We have the Dem leadership actively instructing members how to vote to avoid an impeachment vote. And we have a Speaker not voicing support of impeachment.

Then the Speaker's statements do not signal support for impeachment, but rather caution.

Are there Dems who favor impeachment? I imagine there are. Look, is Trump guilty of "High Crimes and Misdemeanors"? I believe, from what we have seen, yes.

Full Stop.

In a perfect system, he'd be impeached, tried in the Senate, convicted and removed.

But there are darn few members of the GOP like Goldwater or Howard Baker these days. Men of steel who would fearlessly stand up to their president when they knew he had done wrong. The Dems may be like that too, but Trump's in office, so let's, if you can, stick with Trump.

All of that being said, there are always members of both political parties who know the path to votes can often run through impeachment.

But that does not warrant saying "the Dems" any more than it did saying "the GOP" when there were impeachment pushes during the Obama and Biden terms, unless leadership is on board.

And to date, both yours and my statement support the view that the Dem leaders are acting cautiously and have not made a decision on the issue yet.

Dave Miller said...

I'm still thinking about Possum's comment on Trump and the Kennedy Memorial Center.

There's no news disputing reports that Trump is demanding, as the prices of the Kennedy Center continuing to exist, his name being put on the building. Not even the Trump Admin is denying that.

How about this for our conservative trolls.

The Washington & Donald J Trump Monument.

The Lincoln Memorial brought to you by Donald J Trump.

The Donald J Trumponian Museum.

The National World War II Donald J Trump Memorial.

The Jefferson and almost Donald J Trump Memorial.

And on and on it goes.

Meanwhile, diesel fuel is over $6.00 a gallon, causing prices to spike everywhere. The US strategic reserves of oil are at their lowest since the Reagan Admin, inflation is up and mortgage rates are at their highest level since Bush II in the early 2000s.

If Trump worked half as hard to fix actual problems, instead of non problems like Memorials, Reflecting Pools and mail in voting, maybe America would not be in the mess we are now.

But hey... what do I know? 🤷🏼‍♂️

Dave Dubya said...

And of course the "Trump States of America" will be the greatest country ever.

Les Carpenter said...

Distractions, delusions, and chaos are the trump modus operandi, as well as its agenda.

Purpose: Self worshipping as well as fueling the growth of fascist capitalism and oligarchy in the USA.

skudrunner said...

David, Same question has been answered many times, it was biden who occupied the office for four years so he must have won, right!

Dave Dubya said...

Skud,
-FJ/JC STILL can't tell us who won in 2020. See the problem?

Dave Miller said...

Nice try Skud... in this case, you and your ilk are disgusting and continuing to damage America and our elections. Because you simply cannot, or will not, yes, say the words...

Joe Biden won the 2020 election.

Not, he's president. Not he's been in the office. Not he was certified as the winner.

He won. Period.

Is it a big deal?

Yes it is. Nixon knew in 1960, when he had a legit case, that failure to concede the election publicly and say publicly that JFK won would be bad for America.

Al Gore knew it too in 2000 when he had a legit case.

But here's the difference... Trump has no legit case. None. Zip. Zilch. Nada. He knew he lost, but he didn't care. About the elections, or America.

He went to court, as Candidate Bush did in 2000 and, wait for it... he lost. Not just once, but 63 times.

Al Gore accepted a defeat that was hard to stomach because the SCOTUS had spoken. He did not set out on a multi year, multi state tour to destroy the confidence of Americans in our elections, like what you do every time you post your BS weasel words about who won.

You're part of a growing cancer in America that you have caused.

I long for the Nixon of 1960 and the Gore of 2000.

Statesmen who knew, cherished and were committed to America. And acted like it.